4.11.2010

For Lillian....RIP My Friend

I just got the news, that my dear friend, Lillian, had passed.

Heartbroken doesn't adequately describe how I feel. She is gone much too soon, and I miss her terribly.

Lillian's presence greatly colored my first year living in Atlanta. She hired me for my first job in this career transition and we quickly became more than colleagues. We became friends. I will forever cherish our fun memories. She was my foodie buddy -- there was always a new restaurant around town for us to try, and enjoy the culinary experiences, we did! She was my cheerleader, always supportive, a confidant.

When she left for Denver, I had the chance to visit with her twice. Delightful times there, be it with the DNC celebrations, the folks at her favorite yogurt shop, or the shenanigans at the Casbah! We spoke last month, and I had a chance to tell her about my award; she said she'd expect nothing less, that I was doing what I was supposed to, and that she was proud of me.

She had such a warm and loving spirit! Living life to the fullest, with soo much joy and humor, even in trying times. I always looked forward to spending time with Lillian. I sent her a text on Easter -- I should have called. To learn of her passing, so suddenly, has been devastating. But I know she is finally at peace.

Rest well my dear friend....

...::Song of the Day: "Shade of Blue" by Incognito::...

3 comments:

Jennifer said...

Hey Steph,

My prayers are with you and your friends family during this time...I know it can be difficult when we lose people we love however rejoice, for she is home with the Lord and there is no greater peace than that. Love ya!!

Maddy said...

This is why I hold on to the memories since they bring so much comfort to the soul... My prayers to you and Lilian's family during this time, Morena.

I also lost a dear friend this year who was so special in my life... just when he was getting ready to make this his year. They are leaving us too early, but I know that he's at peace and watching over me!

sj-the-infamous said...

Thank you Jenn and Maddy for your kind words, prayers, and comments. It's been a rough day, but I pray each moment will get better. I'm still in shock that she's gone. It's just soo unbelievable.....